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Waiting for Words

There is so much joy in silence. The pause that draws attention to you from your audience allows for time to think. What will you say next? Where is that one word from your immense vocabulary that will perfectly convey a concept? It’s coming – just wait.

Let them wonder.

What the heck is he doing? He’s supposed to be speaking, but it’s so startlingly quiet right now! He’s pacing, he’s smiling, he’s looking into the audience, but he hasnt said anything for like, forever! How long can we endure this tortuous peace?

And then it comes to you. 

Perspicuity pervades the outpouring of verbosity. 

It was worth it. It was worth the time and effort and insufferable silence we all experienced together, just so we could hear you say exactly, precisely, what it was you wanted us to know now.

Use your words. This is good advice. You only need to know the ideas, the concepts you intend to put forth. If you haven’t written every last word of your speech and practiced it, you may not know what you are going to say. Knowing what you mean and trusting that the words are available (and accessible) to say it, are just as important.

That’s all Im trying to say.